Designing and Building Your Ideal Life


What I’m about to show you is not a one-off event, but a lifelong process where you consistently reinvent yourself.

The key factor is that it is a conscious process; you are not at the mercy of external factors around you!

Life is not about what you see, hear or feel. Life only rewards those that DO. So how do you know what to best pay attention to, to take the right action?

It start with designing a Vision for your life.

The first few times round, it’s important to leave no stone unturned, because it is only YOU who can put limits on your success.

It’s all about expanding your current reality, your comfort zone, your context.

Life Vision“You don’t have to get it right, you just have to get it going” Mike Litman

…. and being willing to start from where ever you currently are.

Wherever you are in your life right at this moment is largely a manifestation of all of your thoughts, feelings, beliefs and behaviours that you have ever had or performed up until this very moment.

So you can start creating the life of your dreams, simply by choosing to think, feel, believe and behave differently to what you have done up until this very moment.

In other words, think only the thoughts, feel only the feelings, believe only the beliefs and behave only the behaviours that will create the reality you want.

Define who you are and who you want to become.

1) Who are you?
When answering this, try to look past the external illusions that surround you.
When describing who you are look deep within yourself and reveal your true essence.
You are not your job, and you are not your possessions.
You are what you perpetually think and feel you are.

When completing this exercise be totally honest about whom you are right at this very moment.

Really describe yourself. Strengths, Weaknesses, Passions, Talents etc

2) Who do you want to be?

Time is simply our mind’s ability to sequence our experience. There is no past or future, only the present.

“The road to someday leads to a town called nowhere” Tony Robins

If you desire health and fitness now you must state “I AM fit and healthy, even if all other evidence suggests otherwise.

What you are currently experiencing is what you have BEEN up until this very moment. Now is the time to change your BEING.

Your BEING is a design process where you get to design the person you want to become.

The most important part in any design process is to be 100% clear on what outcome you want, before you proceed.

This step is about you designing the ‘Being’ who you want to become and then being this person now.

Who do you want to BE? Describe this person…  write it down.

“Identity is Destiny” Once you have written down who you are and who you want to be, you are already developing the mindset that will allow you to create whatever you want in your life.

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